愛人如養花

長大以後，失戀不再是生活裡唯一的大事。 它和工作、責任、意外，以及那些來不及準備的人生一起發生。 她剛結束一段三年的感情，原本以為自己會很難過，卻發現生活沒有因此停下來。 有些事情要處理，有些路要繼續走，有些情緒只能留給時間慢慢消化。 她依然不喜歡自己的小腹，不喜歡自己的胸型，不喜歡自己的腿，也不喜歡鏡子裡那些總覺得不夠好的地方。 好像永遠都有什麼地方可以變得更好。 可是她沒有停在原地。 她一邊懷疑自己，一邊接受自己。 一邊失去，一邊成長。 一邊跌跌撞撞地往前走。 這張照片拍的不是自信。 而是一個女人在還沒有完全喜歡自己之前，依然選擇繼續成為自己。 After growing up, heartbreak no longer arrives alone. It arrives alongside work, responsibilities, unexpected accidents, and all the ordinary chaos of everyday life. She had just ended a three-year relationship and thought it would hurt more than it did. Maybe she had changed. Maybe life had simply become bigger than heartbreak. She still finds flaws in herself every day—her stomach is not flat enough, her chest is not perfect enough, her legs are not slim enough, her skin is not clear enough. There is always something that could be better. Yet she continues moving forward. Not because she has learned to love every part of herself, but because she has learned that life does not wait for perfect confidence. This photograph is not about self-love. It is about a woman who keeps choosing herself while she is still learning how.